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| In 2025, and as a way of continuing to give back to others, we have collaborated with Two Good Co to create a campaign called:
"A MEAL FOR A MEDIATION"
The idea is that for every mediation booked in at Divorce Done Differently, we will donate a meal to Two Good Co.
Currently Divorce Done Differently has donated 142 meals to Two Good Co. If you or your firm would also like to donate a meal for each mediation held with us, please visit our page HERE or use the Donate button below.
Everything Two Good Co does is designed to rebuild self-worth and independence, in order to help people break free from the cycle of disadvantage. With every purchase you make with Two Good Co, you're helping to change the course of someone's life; you're walking alongside vulnerable women as they find their way home again. |
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OUR FREE 14 DAY CO-PARENTING CHALLENGE |
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| "10/10"
"The subjects where relevant to everything going on right now."
"I was able to take away tools to apply in a counter and parallel parenting environment too."
"Absolutely - 5 star"
"For sure it had a positive impact on co-parenting my kids"
"Without a doubt I would recommend this!"
Please feel free to share this link with anyone you think could do with a little helping hand when it comes to co-parenting. |
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FRIENDLY FEEDBACK
We are always open to feedback and in 2025, we have received some lovely feedback from clients and our referrers:
“I want to thank you so much for Wednesday. I was so nervous and had no idea what to expect. You are so beautifully suited to your role - you are obviously so incredibly knowledgeable & experienced, but you also made me feel safe & comfortable & supported. You explained everything so kindly & clearly. The whole day was long & hard & very surreal, but you made it far easier than I could have imagined.”
"Thanks Shelby - it was professionally enriching to be involved in such a constructive and respectful process."
"We couldn't have done it without you as the collaborative coach."
"Thank-you for what you did today Shelby. Your contribution was well beyond just the role of a Mediator." |
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PARENTING COORDINATION
Our first presentation for 2025 including Shelby presenting to students from Parenting Coordination Australia on how she conducts parenting coordination files. The presentation included helpful tips, traps, her process and precedents.
If you are looking for a parenting coordinator, you can look at our availabilities here.
You can download our precedent order appointing a parenting coordinator here. |
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THE COACH IN COLLABORATIVE PRACTICE COURSE |
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| COPARENTING COMPASS
by Albert Huntoon
Navigating coparenting is tough—especially when dealing with a difficult or uncooperative ex. Coparenting Compass offers clear, practical strategies to help you maintain your sanity, protect your child's well-being, and avoid common pitfalls in post-divorce parenting.
Written by Al Huntoon, a coparenting solutions strategist with over 30 years of experience in family services and custody mediation, this book is a straightforward, real-world guide to managing coparenting challenges without losing yourself in frustration or conflict.
* Set Boundaries Without Guilt - Learn how to establish firm, healthy boundaries with a difficult coparent.
* Communicate Effectively - Reduce misunderstandings and minimize unnecessary conflict.
* Protect Your Peace of Mind - Strategies to stay emotionally regulated, even in stressful interactions.
* Put Your Child First - Practical ways to ensure your child thrives despite coparenting challenges.
* Navigate Legal & Custody Issues * Understand the realities of custody agreements and co-parenting expectations.
Whether you're in a high-conflict situation or just dealing with a frustrating ex, Coparenting Compass gives you the tools to stay in control, parent with confidence, and move forward with clarity.
Perfect for: Divorced or separated parents struggling with coparenting challenges, family law professionals, and anyone seeking practical, real-life strategies for post-divorce parenting.
Take control of your coparenting journey today. |
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| COPARENTING COMPASS
by Albert Huntoon
Navigating coparenting is tough—especially when dealing with a difficult or uncooperative ex. Coparenting Compass offers clear, practical strategies to help you maintain your sanity, protect your child's well-being, and avoid common pitfalls in post-divorce parenting.
Written by Al Huntoon, a coparenting solutions strategist with over 30 years of experience in family services and custody mediation, this book is a straightforward, real-world guide to managing coparenting challenges without losing yourself in frustration or conflict.
* Set Boundaries Without Guilt - Learn how to establish firm, healthy boundaries with a difficult coparent.
* Communicate Effectively - Reduce misunderstandings and minimize unnecessary conflict.
* Protect Your Peace of Mind - Strategies to stay emotionally regulated, even in stressful interactions.
* Put Your Child First - Practical ways to ensure your child thrives despite coparenting challenges.
* Navigate Legal & Custody Issues * Understand the realities of custody agreements and co-parenting expectations.
Whether you're in a high-conflict situation or just dealing with a frustrating ex, Coparenting Compass gives you the tools to stay in control, parent with confidence, and move forward with clarity.
Perfect for: Divorced or separated parents struggling with coparenting challenges, family law professionals, and anyone seeking practical, real-life strategies for post-divorce parenting.
Take control of your coparenting journey today. |
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| TINY TRAUMAS
by Meg Arron
When little things have big impacts. This book is for anyone who feels that they’re sleepwalking through life, looking for answers to challenging emotions and the practical tools to begin living the life they want.
‘How are you really feeling? A bit blah, meh or simply ‘I don’t actually know’. If this is your honest, knot-in-the-throat response, take a moment – breathe – and let me reassure you that it’s not you, it’s what’s happened to you over the years. You can’t quite put your finger on it, but somehow you just don’t feel like you’re thriving or truly participating in your own life.
This is the result of a build-up of life’s scrapes, papercuts and bruises that have left you feeling simply ‘not ok’. Emotional illiteracy, microaggressions, challenging familial relationships, toxic positivity and gaslighting are some examples of what I call ‘Tiny T’ trauma – the impact of which often leads to problems such as high-functioning anxiety, languishing, perfectionism, comfort eating and sleep disturbance, to name but a few.
We have been fooled into believing that ‘Tiny T’ trauma doesn’t matter. There always seem to be huge, intractable problems in the world, so we tend to overlook those small, everyday injuries that drill down to your core. This leaves us with an undercurrent of constant melancholy and niggling pinpricks of anxiety, all wrapped up in the film of other people’s Insta-perfect lives.
But life doesn’t have to be experienced in this suffocating way; we owe it to ourselves to develop Awareness, Acceptance, and take Action on our Tiny T trauma, no matter how ‘small’, and to start living every day as we deserve.’ |
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| TINY TRAUMAS
by Meg Arron
When little things have big impacts. This book is for anyone who feels that they’re sleepwalking through life, looking for answers to challenging emotions and the practical tools to begin living the life they want.
‘How are you really feeling? A bit blah, meh or simply ‘I don’t actually know’. If this is your honest, knot-in-the-throat response, take a moment – breathe – and let me reassure you that it’s not you, it’s what’s happened to you over the years. You can’t quite put your finger on it, but somehow you just don’t feel like you’re thriving or truly participating in your own life.
This is the result of a build-up of life’s scrapes, papercuts and bruises that have left you feeling simply ‘not ok’. Emotional illiteracy, microaggressions, challenging familial relationships, toxic positivity and gaslighting are some examples of what I call ‘Tiny T’ trauma – the impact of which often leads to problems such as high-functioning anxiety, languishing, perfectionism, comfort eating and sleep disturbance, to name but a few.
We have been fooled into believing that ‘Tiny T’ trauma doesn’t matter. There always seem to be huge, intractable problems in the world, so we tend to overlook those small, everyday injuries that drill down to your core. This leaves us with an undercurrent of constant melancholy and niggling pinpricks of anxiety, all wrapped up in the film of other people’s Insta-perfect lives.
But life doesn’t have to be experienced in this suffocating way; we owe it to ourselves to develop Awareness, Acceptance, and take Action on our Tiny T trauma, no matter how ‘small’, and to start living every day as we deserve.’ |
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